I wrote this book because, for a long time, I felt disconnected from my own family. There were conversations we never had, patterns I didn’t fully understand, and a sense that something was missing—even when we were all in the same room.

That feeling pushed me to start digging deeper. I began asking questions, exploring family dynamics, and looking at my own story with fresh eyes. What I discovered changed everything. I began to see my family—not just as roles we played, but as people shaped by their own experiences, fears, and hopes. And in that understanding, I found connection.

This book is the result of that journey. It’s a guide for anyone who wants to understand their family better—not to assign blame or rewrite the past, but to find peace, clarity, and maybe even healing. We've since helped over 5,000 Aussie families become more connected.

Inside, you’ll find reflections, stories, and tools that helped me—and that I believe can help you too. If you’ve ever felt distant from the people closest to you, or wished for deeper connection, this book is for you.

We are still just a small business so every-order counts, and i've been blown away by the amount of support we have received so far.

We all deserve to feel connected and hearing funny stories. This is my way of helping you get there.